Most sales conversations are too comfortable.
The prospect describes their problem. You nod. You explain how you can help. You both agree it sounds good. Everyone leaves happy.
Then the deal stalls. Because nobody asked the hard questions.
Here are the five that matter most.
One. What happens if you don’t solve this? This tells you whether the problem is real or just annoying. Real problems have consequences. Annoying ones get tolerated for years.
Two. What’s it costing you right now, in dollars, time, or risk? If they can put a number on it, they’re close to acting. If they can’t, the problem isn’t big enough yet, and your proposal will sit in their inbox.
Three. What have you tried before, and why didn’t it work? This is critical. It tells you what they’ve already rejected, what they believe about the problem, and what you’ll be measured against.
Four. Who else is affected by this inside your business? A problem that only bothers one person rarely gets funded. A problem that hits three departments gets a budget.
And five – the big one. If we did nothing for the next twelve months, what would change? This forces the prospect to sit with the cost of inaction. Sometimes they realise it’s fine to wait. Better you find that out now than in three months.
Here’s the thing about all five.
They feel uncomfortable to ask. They feel like you’re prodding, or being negative, or risking the good mood in the room.
That’s exactly why most salespeople skip them. And it’s exactly why you shouldn’t.
The discomfort is the value. These questions make the prospect think harder than they planned to. And the prospect who thinks hard about their problem is the one who actually buys.
The better the question, the better the conversation. And the better the conversation, the better the result.
Ask the uncomfortable ones.
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